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A Big Reply to NickJ and All Others

Postby Craig Browning » Nov 14th, '10, 19:07



WARNING, this is a very long post but one that I hope you will take the time to wade through so that some clarification might come about, hatchets buried and major misunderstandings nullified.


nickj wrote:Agitation? No, but your insistence that your point of view is right, and the associated rationalist bashing gets rather wearying and is just as arrogant as your interpretation of the personalities of said rationalists.

If there exists anything which is beyond the materialistic and which cannot be proved by empirical methods then it is simply not something which can be dealt with by science; many scientists will have personal views on these things, but they cannot say with authority that they are not possible. However, if there is any testable evidence such as knowing the unknowable in this case, it should be a simple matter to determine such to a reasonable degree of accuracy; where this accuracy comes from may or may not be a matter for science. Unfortunately, many of those who share your views on what must be termed the supernatural, also share your rampant cynicism of the scientific method and will not allow testing, or, when testing proves nothing, complain that science doesn't work.



Nick, I'm uncertain if you're directing this towards me but for the sake of clarification on certain issues I’m using your post here (http://www.talkmagic.co.uk/ftopic37312-15.php) as a spring board, so please understand that this is not any kind of personal “attack”


Yes, I do lash out at the whole "skeptic" thing because most are not true skeptics, rather "skeptics by proxy" or "osmosis" -- the faux belief that to be a magician obliges you to not believe in anything, etc. It's a relatively new condition in our society (less than 25 years, I'd say) in that the Christian Magician's Assoc. still held a great deal of influence in the early 80s as did other faith-based magician clubs; voices that were bluntly and rudely silenced by the CSICOP and JREF type elements that rose in "power" and social-political influence in the latter 80's into the 90s to present. Even insiders to these skeptical groups are complaining about the evangelic attitudes so many are taking these days along side their bullying tactics. The other issue that is upsetting these "true" skeptics is the fact that so many of this assholy types really do come to the table "unarmed"... that is to say, they merely echo "the scriptures" as they've been taught to do just like a Sunday go'n to meet'n Christian... hypocrite -- individual's whose "faith" (knowledge) is little more than veneer.

My bitterness stems from a handful of issues when it comes to the self-proclaimed skeptics. Ignoring the above point’s one of my biggest pet-peeves centers on the lack of hands-on experience when it comes to ANY issue tied to Psi or the Paranormal. Granted, they have dozens of semi-rational retorts including the popular, “I don’t have to take heroin to know what it will do to me…” which is actually a bunk argument in that you can’t know how anything will affect you until you’ve have a direct experience with it. This is a fact that medical and mental health professionals BOTH agree on; “scientists” and professionals that deal with such things daily… but what do they know? It’s obvious that the pseudo-skeptics know more and better, right?

There are many individuals that judge me (and others such as Richard Webster or even Mark Lewis for that matter) to be a charlatan while they have NOTHING to stand on outside what their preachers told them to perceive and believe... I think said actions are best known as "contempt without investigation" or as old Ben Franklin put it "judging a book by its cover" vs. what the body of the text reveals. The facts of the matter being something none of these accusers will ever know because of their lack of willingness to be willing to LEARN what is actually what and how we actually do our work as Readers, Teachers of Metaphysics, etc.

The "true" skeptics I know out there; the Rick Maue's and Banachek's as an example, give me far less grief and even support on many levels, than these wannabe types that come after me with but a small fraction of accurate details when it comes to what I (and other “Old School” Mentalists) actually do and practice. They seem to "get" my position as a skeptic as well as my philosophy of teaching the believer by using honey vs. vinegar, when it comes to a more "rational" point of view. But then, this is one of the reasons why I segregate the idea of "Skeptic" from those that are practicing "Cynics"... the latter striving to see the world in black & white vs. the shades of grey that the legit skeptic is willing to accept.

What we have today as a supposed "skeptic" is nothing like the original skeptics or investigators of old; most of whom were men and women with a sense of faith, but who were seeking confirmation of that faith... not the same as a "debunker" (an idea that oft time gets confused and meshed into be “the same” as being a skeptic)... who are typically half-educated enthusiasts that have contempt for any and all versions of faith/belief. Like the prohibitionists of the early 20th century in America, this sort would rather take an axe and hammer to everything first and ask questions later... again, contempt prior to "consideration".

A great example of what I'm saying can be seen in the social political games being played on this very forum towards me... the theories and opinions of one individual spread like a wildfire, seemingly sustained by my own ignorance when it comes to certain "Pirate" forums that I've had incidental contact with (long story – see below) as well as my views (which are shared by many) when it comes to the new sense of selfishness (arrogance) by self-important writers/contributors...
…like many out there, especially in my age group, I understand the concept of a public library as well as how friends and fellow club members have ALWAYS shared books, videos and even props over the decades. Hell, I used to broker rent/lease deals for props owned by several noted pros; equipment that frequently went out to non-magicians for shows like "Circus of the Stars" as well as theme parks, trade shows, etc.

I guess you could say that I believe today's greed & ego driven "innovators" need to grow-up and get a bit more real when it comes to how this business has worked for centuries...
…but that's just my opinion... though it is shared by many folks in this big world... like Stephan Minch, Franz Harrary, Gay Blackstone, Chuck Jones, etc. But then, the Smithsonian and Library of Congress likewise believe there is no wrong or infringement done when digitizing the books, documents, video, etc. they have in inventory and posting it on line... of course Yale, Harvard and a handful of other major Universities are doing the same sort of projects.

Alas... unknown writers set in a rather minor industry (which magic actually is) believe that their lumps of coal are far more important, earth breaking, et al. The truth being, much of what they’ve offered has actually been panned by the movers & shakers in the field… even laughed at because it IS NOT as “original” or “practical” as the author wishes to believe… hell, I’m guilty of thinking that with some of the material I’ve put on the market (much of which has been posted on “File Share” sites BTW).

Funny how that works... :wink:

Unlike my handful of detractors, I actually do have numerous accolades tied to my name as well as historic documentation when it comes to the many contributions I’ve made to this industry… most done well before my detractors did their first shows… (just check this list for starters… it is not complete but offers decent sense of perspective when it comes to the who & what I really am vs. the theories and conjecture some try to promote as being my “truth” – http://www.magicauction.com/IllusionHotline/Illusion_Rights.htm)


Craig & the Pirates. . .
Yes, I’m guilty of having literally “stumbled” (think Mozilla/FireFox Browser) into a video archive that happened to be a “Pirate” source on first run films. It was not my intent however, simply coincidence; I was looking for the U.S. version of a particular Tv program (Queer as Folk) and could not find it anywhere but on this particular site (while the British version seemed rather abundant). I have since found this and others shows that I enjoy (such as DEXTER) on legit sites akin to Hulu or Network sponsored forums. In this particular instance, I was not feeling good and wanted to watch said program while I was resting.

The other “issue” a few have twisted so as to paint me in a dim light, was an article I posted about the anti-pirating laws being past and how it was complicating life for the rip-off artists of the world. My intent was merely to educate forum members of the law and show the squirming, nothing more! Yet, those infected by the TM anti-Craig syndrome chose to spin this courtesy into being something other.


Craig the “Victim”
Yes, I’ve heard this clamor as well most ALL OF IT stemming from within TM and no other site at which I participate (unless, a TM member… more specifically, the handful of folks tied to one key instigator… there have been a few occasions in which said folk have injected a “spin” on things… but that’s not my point here).

Yes, Craig Browning has a plethora of both, physical and mental health problems and yes, he is easily confused, frustrated and paranoid… he likewise has significant brain damage due to early life stupidity (a.k.a. Martial Arts & Stunt work “accidents”) as well as MS issues (there are over 80 lesions on my brain that are documented and can be proven via MRI reports as well as my Neurosurgeons testimony… I stress this in that some folks around here don’t wish to believe I’m ill at all… I wish that were so. But we’ll ignore the fact that I’ve only been out of hospital for roughly 10 days at this point in time and nearly died roughly three weeks ago from a combination of pneumonia and bacterial infection of the lungs.)

Because of the memory problems as well as the various psychological issues I have to juggle, I get dates and chronologies out of sync; I misunderstand what some say or mean in posts and thus, come across a bit gruff and “out of tune” to things…
… I’m not offering “excuses” just explanations – perspectives that my detractors not only strive to discredit, but seek to use against me even though they’ve never met or spoken with me directly.


Repercussions…
I have no doubt that several individuals are going to lash out in retort to what I’ve said or implied (or the thread will get locked, quickly). I simply don’t care any longer. There is absolutely nothing I can say or do to take the poisoned views you’ve cultivated or assumed, and clarify or neutralize it all no matter how many facts I throw at you. Fortunately, I know that these expressions of bitterness seem to reside almost exclusively in two key forums; TM (in that I’m no longer part of the Magic Bunny… another UK based forum where the general memberships think me a major A*S*S – and I point out the UK connection in that it seems a chief constant when it comes to these attitudes… almost as if you don’t want to consider a bigger portrait of things that lays outside your little island empire)

BTW… I’m not “anti-British” (though I busted a gut the first time I heard that line… how silly can you get?) I’m just anti-arrogant; anti-stupid and when it comes to magic I’m very much supportive of things keeping segregated vs. mixed into a stew as so many newbies want to do. It’s how I was trained over the past four decades (roughly) and how the majority of my contemporaries understand it all; everything in its place and season.

The reality is, I and more than a few hundred others know the truth of my life. I’d think a wise person would weigh such numbers and facts over the views and theories offered by a small handful out there; None of us need the headache. I’m simply covering many bases in this rather extended post and most important, dealing with the bias set towards me on this forum specifically. So let’s deal with the myth that I think I’m always right and how I encourage people to do or approach something is the “only right way” to do it…

THIS IS NOT TRUE!

Yes, I’m an opinionated jerk at times; absolutely no argument there but, clarification is required…

I’m a bit of a “jerk” when it comes to keeping things segregated and in their own categories as previously noted. I’m likewise a jerk when it comes to the idea of KNOWING YOUR JOB and what it means to be an “Illusionist” (one that performs large scaled effects… or so that’s been the meaning since the days of Kellar & Thurston until the past half-dozen years) or an Escapist, or a Mentalist, etc. But to likewise have the DISCIPLINE to recognize why you don’t mix this with that or when you do, the mix is done appropriately; Sponge Balls don’t go with a solid Q&A act though you might get away with a bit like Casino Royale… a bit that’s an obvious magic trick even though it has a “Psychic” sort of theme (a weakness to most Bank Night bits that incorporate a ton of props).

To my mind someone that claims to be a Mentalist/Psychic Entertainer must strive to be the cleanest, most impossible such attraction they can be. When you couple or “infect” such a claim by doing a dozen or more magic tricks you are essentially shooting yourself in the foot. This isn’t my opinion but rather a point of view that’s been shared time and again by most of the top rated psychic entertainers of recent history. When we do such things we taint the psychology; something one of my detractors has even pointed out in one of his books; so why am I the singled out “jerk” for emphasizing said perspective?

My passion and love of magic spans decades and the gods only know how much blood, sweat & tears. My ONLY GOAL is to challenge ever enthusiast to think through what they are doing and get them to dig in deep enough to find alternatives – ways of making what they envision better! While I might bust someone’s balls for doing really dumb stuff, my charge is not intended to distance them but rather challenge them to THINK and do things in a more appropriate, effective manner.

Yes, I’m gruff… sorry but nearly every teacher I had over the years was firm and in some cases “brutal” when it came to making me think things through. Even the one major exception to this (Milt Larsen) came about as the result of some very difficult days in my life; two years of trying to not just “remember” who Craig Browning was but to essentially re-learn everything I’d forgotten. It was in fact Milt, Abb Dickson, Harry Blackstone, Peter Pit and Kirkham that gave me my life back… every one of them offering a no-nonsense way of getting the job done. Particularly due to the fact that working pros in this business don’t have time to waste on foolishness and folly… knit gloves and political correctness simply aren’t part of the formula in my experience.

So while it is true, I’m a bit of an opinionated curmudgeon that will cling to certain very specific points, there is not a single HONEST person out there that can accuse me of not striving to fulfill things as I’ve stated here; my goal is ALWAYS to bring out the best and challenge people to consider a far more broad sense of possibility.


Craig & Mysticism…
This is kind of a repeat to things I’ve said previously in this, the original thread and other places.

While I AM very much as skeptic that does hands on investigations, even working with law enforcement agencies when it comes to exposing and prosecuting dangerous “predatory’ situations, I am NOT a “cynic” and I pray to the gods that I never become that narrow minded – things are simply far to “big” than “man’ is sometimes willing to accept and as such, there is more than sufficient room for the auspices of faith/believe in the surreal/spiritual & psi to co-exist with the rudiments of “science”. My experiences and personal footwork confirming that today’s science works more “hand in hand” with yesteryear mysticism/occultism than some in the world wish or are willing to allow as part of their reality. Unlike Thomas, they even doubt the scars…

While I KNOW for fact that there are many crooks, fast-talkers and predators within the Psychic industry I’m likewise aware of the FACT that most DO NOT fit into said mold. For that reason I am seriously opposed to the Psychic Baiting and Harassment encouraged by Ian Rowland in his “canonized” tome on Cold Reading as well as the echo of similar attitudes made by others… ironically UK based cynics more than those residing in other, less cynical world cultures.

Wow! Another jab at the Brits!

Sorry about that but you guys are known worldwide for your crass cynicism of just about everything. In realizing this I’ve managed to let some of the shoulder chips I’ve had lying about, to fall to the ground. Then again, my experience with several UK residents have likewise proved to me that the schmuck factor isn’t as big a constant as it sometimes seem; it’s just the squeaky wheel that gets the most attention. I’d suggest lubricating it but I’m certain someone would take affront to the suggestion (while others might be eager to give it a try).

I do get rather tired of the fact that so many people belonging to the same group host a very wrong view of me and for unjustified reasons. That is the reason for this rather extensive post; to hopefully help you see things a bit clearer and less “tainted”. Maybe it will remind some of you as to how I was originally received to this forum and help you question some of the things you’ve heard or come to assume.

Three weeks ago I nearly died (literally!). While my docs say it will be another 4-6 weeks before I’m truly on my feet again, the experience inspired me to “clean house” and that happens to include sweeping out some of the B.S. that’s been hurting me for some time – only a small kernel of which stems from nickj’s remarks found at the start of this thread.

I’m not out to start some kind of childish back & forth with ANYONE. If you have a legit question, ask it. Know up-front that I will not go out of my way to document and defend my life on any level. My accusers have failed thus far, to reveal certain information that would be needed by anyone seeking to “prove” me some sort of fraud or braggart. I think that says more than enough when it comes to their rumors, theories and general negativity towards me… so let’s leave that B.S. alone in that it cannot be substantiated.

Ask the questions you have that can help us know one another better… that can help you better understand where I’m coming from with things.

Life is simply too short and we all have so many good things to do, so why leave the air stale and the waters murky?

Thanks so much to those that took the time to actually read these words, especially those that actually invested the time to digest things rather than skirt through looking for holes, snares and other hooks by which to “trip me up”… sorry, but I’m not playing that game… life is way too short!

Thanks again, to everyone!

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Postby SamGurney » Nov 14th, '10, 20:04

Indeed life is short...

Before I begin, British culture is much more secular than in the US. I'm not in the remotest sense patriotic or sentimental about a patch of land that I happened to be born and raised on. But living here as I do, I am aware that the secularism and the creation of a more multicultural society means it would probably be very unpopular if anything religious were to be placed on the Sterling as they are on the Dollar, for example- even money backs up my point here, UK having Darwin on the notes- US having 'In God we trust'.

But as a genuine point here, I think you care too much what other people think of you. What person can truly get to know another over a forum? Honestly? Nobody.

I have given up caring, mainly because you are absolutley correct- life is too short. But more importantly in the name of reason, it makes absolutley NO sense whatsoever to be concerned about what other people's opinion of you is. I am the only one who knows 'me'- and at the best of times I find my own opinion of who or what I am doubtful. I don't know if I am who I was a week ago or even a second ago. I don't know if my every action is predetermined or not or whether it is free. I don't know where the boundaries of the 'self' start or end and at times I don't know myself. I spend 24 hours a day with myself. I have lived with myself all of my life, every second of it. If there is one person on the planet who is likley to know me- it is myself. Anyone else's opinion is just speculation.

Perhaps thats a little excessive. I might allow to validate the opinion of loved ones, their judgment to me is- in absolute honesty- important. They know parts of me that I don't; how I come across, how I behave without my realising it. Close one's are people who can formulate valid opinions on me. I can form valid opinions on me.

But who... really... is anyone else? Seeing a flicker of a shadow on a wall and thinking they can know anything important about me? More importantly seeing as there is no chance of anything valid or of value about myself being gleamed from discovering what those other people think of me- it would be entirley irrational of me to take their opinion seriously. I don't care about what my PE teacher thinks of my electrodynamic theory of kinematics on the propagation of light and the subsequent interpolation of photons on an isotropic, homogenious inertial frame represented by a system of cartesian co-ordinates in space-time. Similarly, I wouldn't go to someone who merley catches a facade of social niceties and to ask for their judgment of me.

That is my honest opinion, I respect what you've said- but I am just being honest. You are after all no fan of political correctness and flowered up versions of the truth and such- so there is the hard but honest truth, as far as I see it.

But it doesn't matter what I think anyway.

''To go wrong in one's own way is better than to go right in another's.'' Dostoevsky's Razumihin.
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Postby Ant » Nov 14th, '10, 20:12

As Sam says, it is just not worth it.

At the end of it all this is just a forum and although many notable members of the magic community may use the internet as a medium it is by no means the community in it's entirety, as I am sure somebody of "your generation" shall already know.

Online hostility is laughable and certainly not worth the stress it appears to be causing you. Those that benefit from what you have to say will continue to read your posts, those that have no interest in it shall continue to not read them. It really does not matter.

If someone see's you as arrogant and conceited then so be it, it's not worth losing sleep over.

I personally like being arrogant and conceited. :D

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Postby IAIN » Nov 14th, '10, 21:12

if homeopathy would help craig's massive ego and bulls**tting I'm all for alternative therapies...

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Postby Lenoir » Nov 14th, '10, 21:14

IAIN wrote:if homeopathy would help craig's massive ego and bulls**tting I'm all for alternative therapies...


Count me in as a new believer.

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Postby magicdiscoman » Nov 14th, '10, 21:21

as a confirmed brit and m.s. sufferer iv'e always found craigs posts to be challenging in a good way.

having been around the boards back when we had a pond full of talking fish and having been allowed to creat my own floor, ok basement (I was a strange character then, this board has allowed me to grow), craig was a welcome and needed experienced pro to my "foil" of a passable childrens entertainer and parlor magician happy to inpart my knowledge from my small pond.

graigs style is "old school" and will continue to upset the "give it to me now" "x factor generation" but that should not detract from the experienced advice he gives...... "cant we all just get along"

belive me from someone who has gone through the change, in 20yrs time you'll be the one frustrated at the up and commers disrespecting you when you try to give them the benefit of your experience, except you'll be facing the "iv'e just downloade d your entire life experiences directly into my brain...... your life sucks". :lol:

just my opinion, one old fart to another. :wink:

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Postby IAIN » Nov 14th, '10, 21:30

craig - i do wish you well with your health problems...i think some of the mental problems you may have are not completely known to you either...

i think your bitterness and anger are eating you up...

and i honestly think you may benefit from some counselling...

craig - you have lied over several things, and the more you lie to cover them up, the deeper you dig...and thats what causes this inherent stress you carry which colours everything else...

you have taken lots of work from a fair few people, who have tried to help you out due to health problems, or because you've promised a review or so forth...but you have really, taken the right royal p*ss out of some...and then when you've been called on it - you've snapped at them...

this has happened more than once...

so here's the thing, you've been banned from forums, you have running battles with many people - have you ever stopped and considered that it may not be the rest of the world - but you? just a little...that maybe, just maybe you should shoulder the blame just as much?

we know heroin is bad for us because there's been enough deaths caused by it....and enough crime and murders committed in its name... we could argue that taking absolute pure heroin does not do the same - however, the REALITY OF THE SITUATION is that not many people actually take pure heroin...

so, maybe just learn to grow up and be a bit more respectful of others peoples opinions... use logic, decency and honesty in all you do...

and also, honestly, forgive yourself - as in, accept that you have lied quite often, bullsh**ted and cajoled people - make amends to those people, but first you'll have to accept that you have done all this - and then forgive yourself, admitting and accepting what you have done...and then make amends to those you've wronged and lied to...

you've kept these battles going i think, for attention - for some reason, deep within your bitterness and anger over many many things, lurks a man that wants to be admired and loved...and the irony is, you could have had all those things from your friends and even online people if you just dropped the act...you're well read, i've never seen you help anyone with a routine online...but at least you can point them towards a book or two...and you may well be inundated in reality with routines that you give freely...

however - all i have to go on, is my experience and dealings with you - which have not been pleasant...

all the best

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Postby Vanderbelt » Nov 14th, '10, 22:42

There's a small handful of users on this forum, mentalists, whom I always sit up and pay attention to when I read their posts. Craig is one of them and unbeknownst to him, his posts here, his online visions artices etc. have helped tremendously in my decisions as to how shape my mentalism.

I may not have been around TM that long at all, hell I've not been around mentalism as most of you know it for very long. But I have been around the net/forums as long as I've been reading Tarot and I've learnt not to give a flying s**t about arguments and accusations posted here or any other forum. If someone's acted unprofessionally in their field, deal with it out in the real world, it doesn't belong here.

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Postby IAIN » Nov 14th, '10, 22:49

i disagree - i think it should be dealt within the realms of where it came from...

why should people spread rumours about others (that are lies) and try and pretend something is one thing, when the reality of it is another?

so craig has an online world, he has done a few dodgy things to friends of mine, and to me...so why should he be allowed to continue to tell one side of the story, when its not the truth?

craig keeps bringing this stuff up every now and again, and the same answers are always given (wait til craig posts again)...

craig even managed to get a thread locked in a private forum (the one and only time its happened) because he kept on going on about it...

so if he wants the same old dirty laundry aired once again...let him have at it, i have facts and the truth to back me and others up :D

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Postby Vanderbelt » Nov 14th, '10, 23:10

IAIN wrote:i disagree - i think it should be dealt within the realms of where it came from...


A slightly different matter then. I make no apologies for not having the first clue what you're on about but yeah, if it's a TM 'thing' and even if just one party wants to keep airing the issues.... ugh, it's all very messy though isn't it?

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Postby IAIN » Nov 14th, '10, 23:21

some might say embarrassing, especially for those who know the truth over such matters...

its been said before - no idea why he wants to go for it again...and quite frankly, dunno why i bother either...others can't be @rsed so why should i?

just dont like opinions stated as facts...

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Postby Vanderbelt » Nov 14th, '10, 23:30

IAIN wrote:some might say embarrassing, especially for those who know the truth over such matters...

its been said before - no idea why he wants to go for it again...and quite frankly, dunno why i bother either...others can't be @rsed so why should i?

just dont like opinions stated as facts...


Interestingly, out in the real world, opinions stated as facts are something I loathe. For some reason I'm far more tolerant of it on forums such as here. I'd read countless posts by Craig long before I ever registered here and quickly got the impression that that's something he does. But I know that and bare (or is it bear? I never remember) it in mind when reading his posts.

It often amuses me how some people allow themselves to become irked at the manner in which other people write, people they've never met. So perhaps Craig is a tetchy old chap? Remember that when reading his posts. Of course, I'm not suggesting you simply gloss over something you believe is fundamentally out of order such as lies etc. That's a different matter.

You don't seem to be the type to just ignore things Iain, and that's probably to your credit. I recall numerous posts to Eshly's threads where many would (and many did) choose to simply ignore them.

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Postby IAIN » Nov 14th, '10, 23:41

i think i'll just state facts and leave it at that:

craig asked for a review copy of a book of work a friend had worked hard on - he got told no
he asked again - got told no
asked again, this time a mixture of brown nosing/the offer of "opening doors" for the man - got told no and asked to be left alone
all the way, craig has been spreading lies, dropping snidey little remarks all over the magic forums about him, calling him arrogant and this that and the other - when all it was, was that craig got told "no", and it was meant...
and so it continued until this person had enough, and called him on some claims that craig often made
it escalated from there
a couple of years passed, and a mutual friend of this writer and myself was approached by craig via email - saying "I'm loathed to give that rat-b@stard any of my money - can you send me copies of his work?"...for free, illegally...
that person said no, and told us both
craig was not a happy (magic) bunny, and so it went on

in between times, has lumped a few of us together, who dare speak out on such matters, of the snidey comments, the bullying and so forth - and would often surface like a decrepid godzilla softly roaring away over nothing but the truth...

so, every now and again - craig gets riled and mentions this, plays the "poor me, no one understands me..." card, and expects others to defend him...

so there's the truth, backed up by copies of emails sent if needed... more than enough chances have been given to craig over the years - each time, spat back in our collective faces, to be honest - he should be banned from here the amount of times he's been a d***head over things...but there you go...

so, there you have it - a very short, potted history of the wonderous tale...

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Postby nickj » Nov 14th, '10, 23:44

Craig, I have no problem with you or your personal views, I simply feel that some of your problems on the forum stem from the fact that many of your posts seem hypocritical in that you refuse to acknowledge the validity of science whilst complaining that others refuse to accept your views. You continuously make demeaning comments about those whose views you disagree with whilst complaining when others make similar comments about those you respect. You say you are anti-arrogance whilst writing your posts in what comes across as a very arrogant manner.

I feel that you may benefit in terms of respect from re-reading your posts from the point of view of someone with differing opinions.

Don't take this as an attack, merely a pointer.

Furthermore; to everyone, surely I don't need to remind you all of the rules about airing personal grievances on the forum. Stop it now.

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Postby kolm » Nov 14th, '10, 23:58

I can set my calendar by how often Craig starts such threads...

(I'm not getting involved, I'm in too good a mood and those who count know my opinion on all of this anyway)

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