by Scott F. Guinn » Nov 17th, '03, 22:38
Gentlemen (and I mean that sincerely),
First let me say that I truly appreciate your kind words. The fact that there are people on the other side of the world who don't know me yet would lend me encouragement and support boggles my mind. Thank you.
Second, I bear no one any ill will whatsoever if they haven't yet or choose never to buy my products. I think the world of Tommy Wonder and have his books, but I haven't yet bought his DVDs. The same for many others. If you are someone who is into collecting or learning new, advanced, difficult moves, you would be better served to steer clear of my stuff--you would be disappointed with your purchase.
A wise man once wrote "Know thyself." Another put the same sentiment another way, "A man's got to know his limitations." I have hands that are arthritic and inflexible due to mutiple injuries (sprains, breaks, stabs and being crushed in a freight elevator). I cannot even touch my thumbs to my pinkies to make the classic "3" or Boy Scout salute. Much advanced sleight of hand is simply not within my reach physically, regardless of how long I practice. But I know strong material. I know what will "play," and I am good (maybe not great, but good) at routine construction and presentation. That's what you'll find on my DVD and in my books: material that is well constructed and relatively easy to do with an emphasis on presentation in real-world performance. Some will really like that, while others won't be impressed.
I have no problem with people criticizing my products, particularly when they give a reason. But I'll be honest, it does raise my hackles when some 16 year old kid who has never done a show and doesn't even own nor has ever seen the item starts bashing me personally. As Mandrake asks, would they say the same thing if I were standing right in front of them? If the answer is yes, can respect that, but somehoow I think that in most cases, that wouldn't be the case, and not because I am 6'2" and 220 pounds!
At any rate, I did respond a few times in that thread. I tried my level best to remain civil and stay to the issues. I contemplated my decision for some time. If I respond, I'm a defensive prima donna. If I don't respond, the allegations must be true, or I would have refuted them. As I said in that forum, in the nd, people are going to think of me what they will, and I likely can't do anything to change their minds. But I try to be a good man first, and sometimes, IMO, being a good man means speaking out. I can live with myself at the end of the day, despite what others may think of me.
Sorry to ramble on so--I gues I just needed to vent a bit. You have all been exceptionally kind to me, and I truly appreciate it.