Going back quite a lot of pages (wow, this thread has grown since yesterday!)...
Eshly wrote:The problem is I was a loud, autistic person who didn't understand that you wern't meant to reveal the tricks.
One of the classic symptoms of the autistic spectrum is spotting details. The autistic eye is instantly drawn to words, marks, tiny imperfections, slight misalignments, irregular shades of colour. Things that would pass unnoticed to most people will be picked up clearly by Eshly (and often by me).
Since nobody can inhabit the mental space of others, our immediate natural assumption is: what we find obvious, the audience will too. Which leads to worrying about slight details like flashing the bottom of a deck. YOU think "an imperceptible glimpse"; WE think "waving it in their faces".
Similarly, I would never think of using a cross-cut force, despite all the voices raised in its praise. It's just far too obvious in my eyes. You might as well stick numbered Post-Its on each half of the deck. I suspect Eshly would say the same.
It takes decades of living and working with "normal" people, and pondering their behaviour, to begin to be able to understand what they perceive and how they think. I'm not as autistic as Eshly, and I've got about 35 years extra experience over him, and it's only just becoming possible for me to manage this feat.
So, Eshly, be aware of this and realise that most people really don't notice all the detail. And, everyone else, well, just understand a bit.