by Demitri » Jun 30th, '08, 07:57
No flames here, good sir...
I think these forums are incredibly helpful. Yes, there are times when it is more a social chat than a forum dedicated to magic - but that's really an inevitable eventuality with any forum, isn't it? If we just came on and posted only ideas, and didn't interact, would any of us still come here day after day? I wouldn't.
As far as serving a purpose - I have made incredible contacts through magic forums - had the opportunity to actually converse with legends and major inspirations to me, and - best of all - I do believe I've made a number of genuine friends in the process.
Those friendships have also created some of the strongest ideas I've ever had. My collaborations and conversations with EckoZero, for instance, have propelled my thinking and performing to levels unknown. I am also incredibly honored that some of my thinking has helped Ecko create what I think will be an incredibly powerful mentalism act. As well, I have two concepts that are being fleshed out and road tested over that past few months. While I can't speak for Ecko - these are concepts and ideas that I don't think I would have come up with, had TM not been here.
If it wasn't for Seige paying me a nice compliment on a card effect, I wouldn't have bothered putting together my card magic manuscript.
Talk to Abraxus for 5 minutes - and try to tell me being a TM member isn't worthwhile. Read posts by Tomo, MagicWand, Seige, Mandrake, Beard, PartTimer, Ecko, Queen, Lady of Mystery (the list goes on, my apologies to those I left out - just making a point here, folks!), and just TRY not to type out a pm to discuss things further with them.
If it wasn't for this forum - I wouldn't have a way to speak with people like Craig Browning. If it wasn't for magic forums in general - I wouldn't have had the opportunity to speak with Richard Osterlind!
Yes, we get grumpy and act like a gang when we sense someone is just trying to snatch and grab - but for the most part, I think TM is incredibly hospitable, and the members are friendly and eager to speak with and help out newcomers.
I see what you're saying in your post, and I do think there are forums out there that are exactly as you describe - but I don't think that all-encompassing view includes TalkMagic. We are far more open and collaborative, and friendlier than other places (partly the reason why I really only come to this forum anymore).
We have pretty good numbers - and we have many opinions in here. I've gone head to head with a few people in here - but, barring one occasion, I've never seen any behavior changes outside of the original debate. The biggest problem I've seen with forums is the moderators. Here, we have a great group of guys who don't play favorites, don't mess around - and allow us far more freedom than I've seen elsewhere. As they clearly respect us and our opinions, I feel that respect has been returned in the form of our general behavior in the forums. As far as "heavy mob", again - I have to say I have never seen that here. Our mods are incredibly fair and open to discussion.
I would say that TM is the exception, not the rule - but I still think there is merit to these kinds of forums. Having an archive is very cool and all that, but I think having the opportunity to speak with the person whose work you just read, is far more rewarding. Case in point:
I wanted ideas on color/personality reading. Rather than troll through the internet, checking all over the place - I went to Craig Browning. As anyone knows, he's pretty much THE go-to-guy. In just a few hours I was given all of the information I needed. An archive could have given me the same info - but actually talking with the man made my search a thousand times easier.
I do not share your opinion that these kinds of things will inevitably die. This is a natural progression of what has been in place for hundreds of years. Before the internet, groups would gather all over the place, talk shop, trade ideas, learn and create new effects and methods. The internet just took the place of the local bar (pub, for my friends in Europe). The only way I see this kind of thing dying, is if we find a new, more efficient way to do it.
I don't think I can ever get tired of discussions. I rarely even perform card magic in public anymore, but I could talk card magic until I pass out. I have no problem saying that I have just sat at my computer refreshing the forum every few minutes in order to read a response in a particular conversation. No conversation ever bores me - and, like everyone else, I can find something new to be learned - even if it's the hundredth time I'm talking about it.
It's little things like that, which make these forums worth having. Yes - we sometimes get sidetracked. We like to play word games and talk about video games - but those little "breaks" make it more fun (for me, anyway). I wouldn't trade the TM forums for the largest archive of magical information the magic world could hope to create. The best investment I've ever made in my "magical" studies - is the investment of time on these boards.
I don't think you should expect flames. Elsewhere - perhaps - but not here. I pose a question to you, now. Instead of offering more details and thoughts on what you feel is killing these kinds of forums, do you have ideas or thoughts that can improve them? Is your only desire to have the massive archive you spoke of, or did you have a different kind of thing in mind?
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