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Postby themagicwand » Aug 7th, '08, 11:33



JamesJoystick wrote:. The world is full of mumbojambo and bad thinking, why would magicians encourage it more?

Because mumbojambo (or as I prefer to call it "mumbo jumbo") is really what magic is all about. There's a reason it's called "magic" and not "realism" or "conundrums that are certainly NOT achieved by supernatural means". It's called magic because it brings a touch of magic (or mumbo jumbo) into people's lives. Sometimes that's a good thing.

And please don't call Lady of Mystery a bitch. She isn't. She's very nice. My aura is golden by the way.

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Postby FairieSnuff » Aug 7th, '08, 11:38

JamesJoystick wrote: The world is full of mumbojambo and bad thinking, why would magicians encourage it more?


The only bad thinking i see is yours - Please............. I dont ever think things like about people.....

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Postby daleshrimpton » Aug 7th, '08, 11:40

wikki says...

(and this doesnt make things any clearer! :lol: :lol: )

Mumbo Jumbo, or mumbojumbo is an English phrase or expression that denotes a confusing or meaningless subject.

It is often used as humorous expression of criticism of middle-management and civil service non-speak, and of belief in something considered non-existent by the speaker (ghosts, supernatural phenomena, superstitious beliefs, etc.). Even long after the liturgical reforms of Vatican II, the term continues to be used derisively of Roman Catholicism, as in the The Independent headline of December 24, 1995: "`Mumbo-jumbo' is no bar to Queen Camilla, say experts."

It was coined during the time when Great Britain was colonizing areas of the globe inhabited by native tribes that practiced what seemed to the foreigners mysterious and puzzling rituals which were then called "Mumbo Jumbo", after a supposed idol. One of the sources for the English usage is the Vachel Lindsay poem The Congo, which contains the phrase "Mumbo-Jumbo, God of the Congo". Some believe mumbo jumbo is a translation of the Swahili greeting "Mambo Jambo". Mungo Park's travel journal, Travels in the Interior of Africa (1795) describes 'Mumbo Jumbo' as a character, complete with "masquerade habit", that Mandinka males would dress up in order to resolve domestic disputes.

According to the Concise Oxford Dictionary:

Mumbo Jumbo is a noun and is the name of a grotesque idol said to have been worshipped by some tribes. In its figurative sense, Mumbo Jumbo is an object of senseless veneration or a meaningless ritual.


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Postby themagicwand » Aug 7th, '08, 11:49

daleshrimpton wrote: Mumbo Jumbo is an object of senseless veneration or a meaningless ritual.

I think that sums up my performance style quite accurately! :D

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Postby Lady of Mystery » Aug 7th, '08, 12:00

James dont you dare throw personal insults as me!

I think that you're so missing my point and totally missing the point of performing arts in general. I present a routine which is based around the reading of someones aura, to be honest I don't really care if people believe that I'm really reading their aura or not. They can come to whatever conclusion that they want, as long as they're entertained. It's part of the act, it's entertainment.

Sometimes you have to detach from what your logical mind is telling you and just allow yourself to believe in what you're seeing, just for the duration of the act. I'm not trying to fool people or make them believe that I'm really reading their aura, I'm trying to entertain them.

Do you really think that Derren saying Blue and Ball during his performance is really the reason that the spec picked the blue ball (I don't really know if he's ever done this but it's a made up example)? It doesn't work like that, when we perform we put forward certain ideas as to what we're doing and these fit in with who we are and how we perfrom. I can't get away with deep psychological patter, I giggle too much. But I can do a good, new agey, slightly mad, aura reading hippy type.

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Postby B0bbY_CaT » Aug 7th, '08, 12:11

Seriously... it's not what you say or how you say it... it's WHY?

tell me you can read my mind, astound me with your revelations, leave me wondering how you do it... for my entertainment, then BRAVO!

Tell me I have a lot of unfulfilled potential, I have change coming even though I dont really like change and there is a girl in my life with brown eyes... and I'll smile!

tell me you know what my dead relatives are saying and offer to share that with me for the nominal sum of $100 an hour and you are a scum bag!

Just my opinion.

It's not about the "lie", heck, if you didn't want to be lied to you'd never watch a movie (news flash... Bruce Willis isn't a real cop!). It's not about the lie, it's about what you're trying to achieve by lying... entertainment or extortion!

Come to think of it, it's about cold reading. Which of itself isn't a lie, since you don't necessarily know what your fishing for is right or wrong when you say it.

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Postby IAIN » Aug 7th, '08, 12:15

joystick not got the guts to apologise then?

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Postby themagicwand » Aug 7th, '08, 12:27

B0bbY_CaT wrote:Seriously... it's not what you say or how you say it... it's WHY?

tell me you can read my mind, astound me with your revelations, leave me wondering how you do it... for my entertainment, then BRAVO!

Tell me I have a lot of unfulfilled potential, I have change coming even though I dont really like change and there is a girl in my life with brown eyes... and I'll smile!

tell me you know what my dead relatives are saying and offer to share that with me for the nominal sum of $100 an hour and you are a scum bag!

Just my opinion.

I think most of us on here would agree with this - to a greater or lesser extent. I have regular contact with mediums who do talk to the dead. They also do it professionally. But they really, really believe in their gift and their mission. They aren't heartless con-men - although doubtless there are some out there who are. This is a mine field and I find myself wandering further and further into it...so I'll just stop at - I don't think many will disagree with your above statements.

B0bbY_CaT wrote:news flash... Bruce Willis isn't a real cop!

He's not??! I'm shocked! What's the word on Santa? :D

You know, the older I get and the nearer I get to the grave, the more I think "If I want to believe in fairies at the bottom of the garden, why the dickens shouldn't I?" If it makes my life happier and my world more magical, then I'm perfectly happy to believe in something that I have no tangiable evidence exists. And perhaps it's my belief that brings such things to life? Perhaps Santa really does exist, and the proof of his existance is the belief of millions of children (and a few adults!) around the world. I think I may have stolen that idea off christianity. I'm not sure.

I'm also sure I don't know where I'm going with all this so I'll just stop now. I fear I have been rambling. Don't take my words too seriously. I know there aren't really fairies at the bottom of my garden. They're all down by the brook. Boom boom.

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Postby mark lewis » Aug 7th, '08, 12:31

Why use cold reading in the first place? You can get far better results using your intuition and genuine psychic ability however you wish to define psychic.

I always think it looks so fake asking all those stupid questions and looking at people's body language that those type of readers do.

When I do a reading I hardly look at the person since I am concentrating on their palms or the cards themselves. And they hardly speak and I never ask questions. After all I am supposed to be telling them rather than them telling me.

I really think that magicians know very little about the psychic business (and that includes Randi) but they do like to spout about it.

I know many psychics and they would have no idea what you are talking about if you mentioned "cold reading". I will grant you that a lot of so called spiritualist mediums go down that route but not regular psychics. Hardly any of them ask a million questions like the mediums do.

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Postby Mandrake » Aug 7th, '08, 12:33

themagicwand wrote: Perhaps Santa really does exist, and the proof of his existance is the belief of millions of children (and a few adults!) around the world. I think I may have stolen that idea off christianity. I'm not sure.
Probably Miracle on 34th Street.

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Postby Mandrake » Aug 7th, '08, 12:35

Just a thought, the title of this thread was Cold Reading so that's where the reader and a complete stranger are involved, there's no existing information, preshow work or other skullduggery involved. Nothing wrong with that, most of us have to make instant assessments of strangers we meet in many other walks of life.

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Postby Johnny Wizz » Aug 7th, '08, 12:54

Mandrake wrote: Nothing wrong with that, most of us have to make instant assessments of strangers we meet in many other walks of life.


How true this is. If you have carried out interviews for jobs you will know that you are more or less cold reading throughout the process.

You have a piece of paper in front of you (the CV) and you have to decide whether it is accurate or a work of fiction or somewhere in between.

The subject you are interviewing may be very honest, a touch shady about some things or the biggest liar in the world.

In 20 minutes or so from a predecided set of questions you have to listen to what you are being told, read the body language and facial expressions, delve behind the answers you are being given and decide whether this is a person you would want to employ given that getting rid of them if you get it wrong is so complex these days you have to wonder why anyone would want the title "manager"!!

Most of us cold read in some form every day. Interviewing is just an example. But I have done enough of it to know one thing - I am sticking to card tricks!

Oh, and I second the condemnation of the joker who is being abusive to the Lady Of Mystery. We get plenty of informed and sometimes heated discussions in this forum but there is no place at all for abusive language. Grow up sonny!

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Postby JamesJoystick » Aug 7th, '08, 13:16

IAIN wrote:joystick not got the guts to apologise then?


Sorry, had to work some time.

Lady of Mystery, I didnt attack you personally. I dont even know you, so how could I? I just meant that if a magician claimed he can achieve the trick by using supernatural powers that dont exist (that same time many people still believe), it would totally ruin the fun for me.

If the language offended someone, my apologies. Bitches! (just kidding)

It's the same that I would do magic and tell you that I can do this trick because Jesus the Lord is helping me, and I am the allmighty God's assistance.

It offends intelligence.

With NLP, psychology and hypnosis, the case is a bit different. Nobody is saying they have supernatural powers, but skills one could really have.

We could discuss ages about hypnosis for example, but it's a fact you can do very strange things with it as a tool. It has nothing to do with any supernatural / mystical powers, but with the way human's mind work, and what the people believe in.

At one point of my magician hobby, I did some tricks with cards on a bar to an older lady. She wanted to me to do a reading for her, and I said I dont do such things, and I dont believe that nonsense.
She insisted and insisted, and finally I went "okey, then, lets try it".

I did an 10 minute reading of her, using just my people skills, and found out alot of stuff, things that really were just clever guesses but hitted the spot. At the end she started to cry, and wanted me to give her advice on certain things, how she should proceed with them. At this point I totally got depressed out and never did the stuff again. And generally I despise people that have to use these supernatural-type of claims to do a magic trick.

There is way too much responsibilty for a magician to play with that stuff. Most of you think that its the audiences responsibity to think whatever they like of your so called gifts, but I think that its just stupid and bad thinking.

For example, Lady of Mystery, if you do your "aura"-tricks, some people could get the verification they need that auras exist. Then you are responsible to that.
I myself dont want anything to do with this kind of magic.

Magician aint the same as actor. If you talk to people or surf the net, you will easily find out that there actually are alot of people who thinks that for example Uri Geller posess real, supernatural magic-skills. Why on earth you wanna be a part of that? Why you wanna be Uri Geller?

I know there are few people around who thinks that Matlock really is Matlock, but that is minority. People will know that actors are just playing a part, doing a role, but many people dont undestand that a magician is just an actor playing macigian's role, like Robert Houdin stated.
Many superstitious people still believe in these things, like for example the aura-bullshit, and are encouraged by what you do. Unless, of course you are really straight-forward clowning with them, and all will get it that its just a play for fun. But I take it that you have some kind of seriousness with your routine.

And what comes to Derren, lady of mystery, an good example of this is his 4 white balls and 1 black ball, that he does in "Something wicked this way comes" -liveshow. If you know the technique behind it, you know that 99.9% of the trick is just acting.

Of course you can use psychological forces, for example, and I myself do that alot. But the methods in magic should be invisible, so it doesnt matters what method you use, but what matter is how you present it.

Apologies to offendend, and apologies of my bad english. Not my fault I was born to a non-english country!

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Postby daleshrimpton » Aug 7th, '08, 13:21

supernatural. why is it people forget that this word, is actually two?

super natural .

which is the bedrock of my thoughts in my earlier post above.

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Postby B0bbY_CaT » Aug 7th, '08, 13:33

JamesJoystick wrote:
At one point of my magician hobby, I did some tricks with cards on a bar to an older lady. She wanted to me to do a reading for her, and I said I dont do such things, and I dont believe that nonsense.
She insisted and insisted, and finally I went "okey, then, lets try it".

I did an 10 minute reading of her, using just my people skills, and found out alot of stuff, things that really were just clever guesses but hitted the spot. At the end she started to cry, and wanted me to give her advice on certain things, how she should proceed with them.


Perhaps it was her way of politely saying your card tricks were lame?

(sorry... I couldn't help myself)

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