by Jean » Oct 26th, '08, 03:40
Thank you Craig for your concern but there is nothing to worry about in that aspect.
As I said in my post, the children didn't know how the trick was done, they simply squeezed there own arm, and believed that's all I did.
Also as you said, you live in America, the rules are slightly different. While its true that there are some panicky parents as well as some legendarily stupid laws regarding children's health and safety, there is still a (moderately) more relaxed view around what is acceptable for children in the Uk.
For starters, and as I mentioned, I performed this in an adventure playground, I did this trick while standing in front of a large campfire three of the 10 year old's had made.
While performing a card trick, a twelve year old was chopping wood into small bits of kindling with an Axe. So I imagine cutting there arm wouldn't be that high a concern on the parents or child's list.
The fact is that adventure playground recognize the necessity for a child to take risks, and facilitates an opportunity for that to happen in an environment where people with knowledge and training can help if something goes wrong. It also provides the children with some personal freedom instead of regulating and organizing there lives around the schedules of adults. (Time to go dear, time for a bath, time for school, time for bed, I'll take you to the playground for half an hour then I have stuff to do etc) Children are allowed to arrive and leave as they want, unless under the age of 6. And what has been made apparent over the last 50 or so year's adventure playgrounds have been in England, is that children are not stupid nor suicidal.
A child will very rarely misjudge how dangerous something is in comparison to there ability's. Nor will they purposefully hurt themselves or others. How many years of experience do you really think you need to know that cutting your arm hurts and is dangerous?
Anyway I don't want this thread to turn into a debating circle about right and wrongs with children and magic. I was more interested in discussing the implications and possibility around the stigmata effect.
I respect the fact that your more experienced with mental magic and psychology and if you have advice or concerns about the effect I will listen and respect your opinions on the subject. I however have been interacting and working with children for some odd eight years (professionally and personally), and am studying Playwork, a course not just looking at what play is, but what it means to be a child both locally and globally.
Children are far more aware of the world around them than many adults would care to recognize. Ask a nine year old all in England the swear words they know, I guarantee you they will know them all.
Invoke not reason. In the end it is too small a deity.