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kevmundo wrote:You can make it on your own for sure! However, speaking/meeting regularly with other magicians will help you get there a lot quicker, and will help you avoid some of the pitfalls. TM users meet regularly in different parts of the country. There's one coming up in London next week. I'm just about to bump the post so have a look and if you're in the area, you can come and meet a few magicians in a relaxed environment - ie - a pub!!!
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TonyB wrote:I will go against the grain and say you will make quicker and surer progress without a mentor. They tend to have big egos. Join a club, mix with guys by all means. But don't bother with a mentor.
3 ♣ wrote:Thanks guys, I think this question arose because of reading statements by people who offer a mentor service stating that a mentor is absolutely necessary - but then I guess if you are selling yourself as a mentor, of course you're going to say that!
mark lewis wrote:I think I agree with Tony. I am completely self taught from books and I never met a magician for the first two years of my studies. I thank the Lord every day for that. If I had met magicians earlier I would have picked up all their bad habits and ended up as mediocre as they are. Just look around and observe all the bad magicians. That is about 90% of them. And they all think they are among the good 10%. They will all agree that there are only 10% of good magicians but they will think that they personally are one of them.
I am not completely against the idea of a mentor but you would have to be VERY careful who that mentor would be. Very selective indeed. If you pick the wrong guy you could be in real trouble and end up even worse off. I have seen this kind of thing happen rather a lot. Magicians in general seem to think that their opinions are important and most of the time they are not. And indeed they can be harmful.
Alas magic clubs are breeding grounds for bad magicians. The blind leading the blind. By all means seek advice but be bloody sure it is good advice. It is a very good policy to assume that any advice you get from other magicians is the wrong advice. Best to either ignore it or look at it very selectively. The only time you should take any notice of it is if it comes from someone you respect.
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