Django wrote:I speak of "assuption"? Where? I never used the word once. Gee, Craig, if your expect people to labor through your long winded responses you may want to bother to read the couple sentences you're responding to in the first place.
Wow, the word advanced in your avatar really is starting to look like "the need to talk down to people"
But since this all started at me hoping to get the name of a good book to start with rather than try to make sense of that disorganized verbose sticky you wrote, I guess it's only fitting.
So please, use your "advanced" mentalism powers and make yourself forget I even asked.
Django:
As the others have said, there is no one good book, but several in which you will find you will need to combine things in ways that work for you.
Corinda has a nice step on reading that will help
Banachek's
PS1 and
PS2 will give you good ideas on how to use psychological forces and suggestions
Tomo's new
Naked Mentalism will show you the statistical probabilities that lie behind psychological forces (forthcoming)
Sleight of Mind will explain how to read verbal and non-verbal cues in people
Millard Longman's
Psychic Skills Workshop will teach you how to build rapport and use hypnnosis techniques to induce trance states.
But Craig said most of this is his sticky anyway. I would add Derren's
Pure Effect and
Absolute Magic and Ickes
Everyday Mindreading to the list, among many others.
In cotrast to your characteristisation, I do not find Craig's sticky verbose or disorganised. Rather, it moves from billet reading through to advanced reading techniques in a logical and didactic way that if followed will produce results in the medium to long term.
I keep a printout in my files and consult it on a regular basis. Moreover, the more time I spend on magic and mentalism forums the more its structure and content are vindicated by top performers in the field who are making a living out of performing. I have yet to find one course or book that covers all these topics, so it is up to each of us to explore the resources.
Between Craig's sticky and Abraxus's list, you should have all that you need to get started.