You need to be mindful of the additional fees, assuming a Church do there's usually a fee for the Organist or use of church organ if you have a friend willing to play, there might be verger's fees and additional costs for sweeping up confetti, church bells being rung are an add-on and if you need help with the singing then the choir also add to the cost of the day. Even adding all those up they're still relatively small compared to the money spent on photographers, caterers, venues, discos and any entertainment (!) plus,of course, the ol' booze bill tends to be significant as well. Then there's the cost of the honeymoon......er, I think I can see why a lot of folks prefer to just move in together

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