Well at risk of bringing up another discussion, I think it is as simple as trying your best, with both misdirection and the sleights. I have found in pretty much everything, that euquilibrium is the ideal state; or at the very least expect reciprocity. Misdirection is to be used to aid the sleights, not compensate for them.
But I do understand what people are saying. I know someone who was spawned from the hideous: 'dvds rather than books, new rather than old, instant gimmick rather than effort, youtube, visual learners... ad nauseum' generation. He had never read RRTCM. To me anyway, that is like driving without a liscence. But anyhow, despite my reverence he claimed that he knew everything in it (Off Youtube, presumably) apart from the pass. Of course, for the sake of retaining my aimiability I did not say 'If you have not read it... HOW ON EARTH CAN YOU KNOW THAT YOU KNOW WHAT'S IN IT??!!' but I did try and persaude him that wanting to learn the pass was a suitable pretext for reading the rest of the book. Of course though, he was a visual learner: so a book is no use. Anyhow, ever the advocate, I demonstrated the pass he was asking me about. Of course it was just mostly a modified ACR but he was mildly impressed by the potency of books, and then left telling me that he would try and get a dvd on the pass. I smiled in a way that Duchenne de Boulonge would have laughed at, and all hope died inside me. I suppose the love of the pass fostered by Youtubian.. ahem* 'magicians' is an inability to perform to real people, without a blurry camera.
Fortunatley, Several weeks ago, I suspect he had been converted by another evangelical bibliophile and he was asking me about Tarbell, RRTCM, ECT and Bobo. I smiled properly this time and helped him out as much as I could.
I suppose it just goes to show. Ghandi once said 'When I despair, I remember that all through history the ways of truth and love have always won. There have been tyrants, and murderers, and for a time they can seem invincible, but in the end they always fall. Think of it. Always'.
Well I paraphrase him: 'When I despair, I remember all throughout history the ways of Braue and Hugard have always won. There have been corporate sell-outs, and youtube exposers, and for a time they can seem attractive, but in the end they always get exposed as retards. Think of it. Always.'
P.s. I take it Charles Roberts is Mark's pseudonym?

''To go wrong in one's own way is better than to go right in another's.'' Dostoevsky's Razumihin.