by Allen Tipton » Aug 22nd, '10, 10:55
I would hope your marriage depends on something stronger than a Mass Produced ring.
Good to know someone is still getting married these days.
Now-- afte 40+ years of marriage--I can say-Your Lady will be enthusiastic, loving etc about Your Magic but--pause a while--
Is this because she really loves you at this stage in your relationship?
Or is she really into Magic.
I suspect the first reason.
Years ago my wife & I wore the same coloured sweaters, had all the same meals, went into the same Theatre productions etc.etc. We did 3 mindreading acts, she helped in the Chinese Act. made props, helped devise my Floating Ball routine and made the actual 2 Balls then Magic became--'Oh I don't really like it but it is Allen's 'thing'--he absolutely loves it and it is good for him to have something separate to my likes.
Too many Committe Meetings here over the 8 times I was President didn't help, especially with magicians thrusting tricks, literally, under nose, with that ridiculous old cry--'have you seen this one?'
Her patience with them was outstanding.
BUT the one thing that has never changed was the small but lovely, individually chosen engagement ring. She still adores it.
So forget Magic--and certainly forget MASS produced rings.
Go out, possibly with her, and choose an individually made normal engagement ring. Not something ordered on line-go to an actual jeweller's.
Believe me in years to come she will look on your action & the chosen ring with great love & pride.
Now, the only magicians my wife remembers with affection, admiration and Respect are; Alan Shaxon, Paul Daniels, and the late Edwin & Victor Burnett.
As she says--and she has been on the stage all her life--'Magicians are not as good as they think they are!'
It's the basic LACK of Showmanship, Presentation, Stagecraft, Performing Personality, good manners in lots of cases and ego she deplores in most magicians.
And I agree with her wholeheartedly!
Allen Tipton
Began magic at 9 in 1942. Joined Staffs M.S at 13. Nottm.Guild of M. (8 times President. Prog Director 20years)IBM. Awarded Magician of Month 1980 By Intern. Pres. IBM for reproducing Dante's Sim Sala Bim. Writes Dear Magician column for Abra. Mag.