by bmat » Feb 7th, '13, 18:37
It is interesting the opinions of others. It is what makes the world go around. Not saying anybody is right or wrong. In fact I suppose it all comes down to our personal styles and how we use the information we have.
I usually agree with TonyB But in this case I have to 'disagree' with his assesment of 'Completely Cold" I certainly agree that it may be uselss to some. However I use the principals of Completely Cold not just in my magic world but in everyday life. My mother sent me a copy when I was working at a bank, I was in sales selling loans, equities and such, it would drive me crazy that so many people had all this money just sitting doing nothing. Earning 1 or 2 percent when there are so many products out there that would actually put that money to work. I could not figure out how to get people to listen. My mother who is great at selling and getting people to not only listen but she gets people to hear what she has to say. She sent me 'Completely Cold' after a rocky start I started getting people into the bank. I started getting them to listen, so much so that the branch manager started to take notice. Sales improved to the point where the district manager started to take notice. All because I took the principal in Completely Cold and applied them (it?) to my situation.
To be fair I don't do a lot of cold readings, I find psychic work...hmmm, not for me. Mentalism I find to be on the boring side. But the book certainly did change the way I perform to a degree and made me change the way I deal with people in a variety of situations. Including the occaisonal 'reading' to use the term very loosly.
So, to be more long winded perhaps TonyB is correct that in application to 'readings' Completely Cold may be useless, to many. But I have, and I know plenty of people who find the book very useful.