As jericbilo has pointed out, your questions are immense in relation to what it would take to answer them. You might want to be a bit more specific, as you'll find this site teeming with helpful members who go out of their way to give you points of view and advice.
And, as bronz has stated, you should have the Wilson book.
I'll try to throw some stuff your way...
Books (not in any particular order, but important books to have):
- Complete Course in Magic (Wilson)
- The Magic of Michael Ammar (Ammar)
- Tarbell Course in Magic volumes 1 - 8 (Tarbell)
- The Amateur Magicians Handbook (Hay)
- The Secrets of Alkazar (Kronzek)
- The Magic of Milt Kort (Minch)
- Modern Coin Magic (Bobo)
- Magic and Showmanship: A Handbook for Conjurers (Nelms)
- most anything with the name "Minch" or "Vernon" on it -
With the library above, you could easily have an entire career in magic. In fact, if you studied those books, in earnest, you'd honestly have a lifetime's study on your hands...
More than a lifetime's study.
Of those books, Tarbell, Nelms and Wilson are your best bets for stage work and presentations. I believe that Hay covers stage magic in his book also (but am too lazy to go to my book shelves and find it!).
Further, that is not an exhaustive list. For example, if you wanted to get into cigarette manipulations, then you'd want "Encyclopedia of Cigarette Tricks" (Clark) which delves deeply into cig manipulations.
Further, if you want to go past just the tricks and really get into magic in theory, then "The Books of Wonder" (Minch/Wonder); "Mastering the Art of Magic" (Burger); "Pure Effect" and "Absolute Magic" (Brown) would be the way to go (among many other books - again, not an exhaustive list).
For sleights, well, there are different sleights for different things. Some sleights have applications in various branches of magic, whereas other sleights are very particular to their genre (you won't often use a "gambler's cop" in much of anything but card magic).
For a comprehensive guide to coin sleights, then you go with Bobo. You already have a good book for card sleights, but if you really want to go big, then get the 5 book set of Card College (Giobbi).
See what I mean? You need to be more specific!
For cups and balls, Ammar has a very nice book on that, and that alone. Keep in mind that cups and balls are a comprehensive study all to themselves. You'll find that Ammar has two DVDs out for cups and balls and I suggest that you get both if you really want to learn the cups and balls, backward and forward. Volume one covers the basics, volume two gets into more advanced work including routining. While volume one is basics, I would still suggest getting it because, as you've stated, you are much of a beginner, but, more importantly, mastering the basics is required, if you are to honestly be able to do the real work.
Regarding escapeology...My apologies, I don't have enough work invested in that myself to offer you any worthwhile advice.
Regarding performance videos...You'll not find too many of those, because they don't sell as well as the secrets videos. Unfortunately, most magicians don't give a damn about other magician's performances - the only thing they are interested in is what they can use. But, there are still some out there to be found.
I believe that one of the DVDs in Michael Finney's series is mainly a performance video, but I could be wrong. Also, Doc Eason has a purely performance video on the market. It is bar room magic, but if you study Doc's work, you'll find that what you learn in handling the audience is well worth the cost, even without the secrets. Doc is quite an entertainer.
Also, if you look around the internet, like on youtube, you'll find various performance offerings from the likes of Lance Burton and many others. Check into those. Also, if you are into an odd sort of humor that is pure genius, then look into the performance vids (again, youtube) of the late Tommy Cooper. While youtube, for the most part, is a vast wasteland of useless garbage, there are some gems to be found thereabouts.
Regarding the paper covered tube...Sadly, I know the trick that you are talking about, but I haven't a clue as to what it's called or where you can locate it. I do believe that it's still on the market. The best place to start looking for it would be Daytona Magic (they are on the net), who have an inventory that is disgusting in its immenseness.
Regarding other tricks that may be of interest...Take a scroll through the reviews section right here, on this site. See if anything tickles your fancy. Have plenty of time on your hands, though - this site has over 1,700 posted reviews. Sorry, I'm not going to list them!
Mike.