by IAIN » Mar 19th, '07, 09:20
yeah, basically, think of it like this, you're telling someone a mountain of lies to entertain them...it sounds awful, the power of the word "lie", but lies can do good as well as harm...
if your missus says "have i put on weight?"
if you laugh and say "well, of course you have, that belly wasnt there last year luv" then poke it with a stick and sneer...
you're in for a well deserved hiding aren't you...
you can tell someone you really like their poem, when it stinks to the heavens, but, its a harmless hobby, they're expressing themselves, and you could gently nudge them towards some baudelaire or someone worthy...
anyway, mentalism, cards, all the others, a mix of skill, lying and cheek...its all in the entertainment and suspension of belief/disbelief...
if you're not getting much out of it, then you need to either give it up for good...or study more and apply it to your own ideas/creativity to come up with something that suits you...2 months isnt enough time to be honest...
and if you just want to be derren brown, well, i understand the hero-worship, we all go through it, but dont try and emulate what he does, you're not him, and he's not you...just be yourself and relax...take it one (out of 13) steps at a time...