by sleightlycrazy » Jun 17th, '07, 17:44
You missed a significant point made by Tomo. Dextrous or not, by obtaining the "free" information, you're taking money from the originators of the sleights and routines. You're also indirectly supporting the person who's "sharing" the method to pirate more by boosting his post count. Buy "Royal Road To Card Magic", "Now You See it Now You Don't", or any other beginner book. It will have more information and more advice than all the horrible youtube videos.
Also, you'll have more respect when posting here at TM.
Regarding your question, when practicing sleights in front of a non-audience, don't make it look like you're trying sleight of hand. Just look like you're playing with the cards in some strange way. I'm guessing you're practicing either Tenkai or the back palm. Mirror work is essential for them to work.
Please buy the books and respect the originators.
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