chryles, the magic wand as with all of us has had some bad kid's show experiences
but I also said that they and you are in control.
You gave them that control, so they will respect you for that.
If anything goes wrong there is nothing wrong with stopping the show.
sorting it out
and continuing.
You have an advantage. You are the profesional so YOU and ONLY YOU control the enviroment. If you wish to set up in a coprner to help your angles, do so. You say were they sit etc. No windows behind so they can't get distracted by stuff outside, draw curtains etc. Turn lights on or off as required.
Let the adult helpers there know what you want of them from the point of veiw of child control before you start. Be freindly tell them that you wish for them also to relax, stay and enjoy the show aswell. This stops them running off for a fag and leaving you alone with the kids.
The first thing I do at gigs like this is to have them all file in and sit on the floor behind an imaginary line. This is the responsibility of the adult helpers, but you let them know this in advance, you are the mindreader not them
This has the added advantage of making you look more professional when the show starts.
You only deprogram the kids to shout out and interact. Not run around.
Tell them at the begining that you wish for them to remain seated at all times, unless called up to help. Tell them 'I will only choose helpers who are sitting'
The kids want to participate.
If one stands up. Ask them to sit down if they don't just say 'please sit down, I can't continue with the show until you do as some of the others can't see'.
Also if someone keeps shouting out say 'please be quiet whilst I am speaking as some of you can't here what I am saying and you would not wish your freinds to miss something good would you?'
nip it in the bud
Also they will try to look at your props (glance round the back of your table etc.) So hide the props, take the one you are useing out then put it back into hiding. (some people use two boxes, tricks to do and tricks done) Otherwise the kid you got up as a helper will spend all his time looking in your box of tricks, and not at you.
It is easier at the end to keep the lid on a box than fend off ten kids all of who have a hand each on ten props!!!!!!
Get it sorted before the show and you will have less to worry about during the show.
hope this helps.
