by seige » May 6th, '04, 12:30
If I found it natural and pleasant to stroll around a field in Somerset in nothing more than my birthday suit, I would of course, condone it and rave about it.
However, it's not everyone's cup of tea.
And similarly, I would give jalepeno peppers 10 out of 10 for flavour, wheras I know for a fact that most un-abused palettes would not even get the flavour–just the burn.
The point I am trying to illustrate is that there seems to be too many 'opiniated' and 'final word' views in reviews—not just here, but in other forums too.
A review, if well written and honest–and critical only to a point of being fair, then surely we've still got a decision?
Because someone TELLS me something is good, I cannot be the judge, because my opinions are being overridden.
If someone SUGGESTS something is good, I still have the leeway to ask questions and make my own mind up.
However, the point which usually sinks home harder is NEGATIVITY.
If someone TELLS me something is BAD, I take instant notice, and will avoid.
If someone SUGGESTS that something is BAD, I can take it as read that it may only be bad for them, and not the rest of the world.
I tire of the slanging matches. I tire of the soapboxes.
If something is good enough for one person, but doesn't even rate for the rest of the planet, then there's a fair point.
But—just because I am the only person I am aware of who enjoys belting down jalepenos without fear or pain, and the rest of my family and friends think I am a lunatic —should that be grounds for Sainsbury's to stop stocking them?
Should that be grounds for ME to STOP EATING THEM?
Indeed, should I even STOP BUYING THEM because I am told they are foul, and too hot to eat?
No. No. No.
HOWEVER - LACK OF KNOWLEDGE CAN BREED IGNORANCE AND ARROGANCE...
As far as strolling around naked in a 'Health and Efficiency' style - no, it's not my cup of tea. But, I'm not going to evangelically protest, or despise those that do. Oh, no. Why?
Because, I've never tried it. Heck—I may even enjoy it, if I did.
What am I rambling on about?
Well, in my scenario, I'd give roaming around in the buff a 0/10 rating, and I'd give Jalepeno Peppers a definate 10/10.
But, I know that my subjective opinions may be reliably and justifiably challenged. And I would accept that criticism.
However—my point is that I have just explained and justified my opinions above. Perhaps if more reviews gave justification for their ratings, then we'd not be having this discussion.
And if people would stop being so righteous and precious about their own opinions, whether right or wrong, then we'd reach conclusions and agreements in a far quicker and amicable (dare I say, mature) fashion.
(Seige steps down, and waits for an influx of hate-mail)