Ok these are my personal thoughts on this thread. They do not necessarily represent the thoughts of any other mods.
1. The topic itself isn’t one I was particularly interested in, in the first place. It seemed to be little more than gossip, that could be potentially damaging to an innocent man. The fact that this man is perhaps the best known living magician was immaterial to me and doesn’t automatically make it a topic to be discussed on a magic forum. I hate (with a passion) gossipy – sensationalist journalism.
If anywhere at all, it would (IMHO) have been better off in the Doves Head
2. By the time the rape allegation was mentioned I was already thinking of deleting or locking the thread. It was obvious the only facts we knew were coming from the press and as such they were very unreliable. IMO Rape is a crime that even the hint of an allegation can at best change how we think of someone. Even when found innocent there is always that “well maybe he was guilty” thought that we can’t help to think about. IMO it is not something that should be discussed in a magic forum.
3. Craig makes a post that asks us to consider the fact that the rape allegation could be a publicity stunt started by David Copperfield himself. Craig has reported in the past that he knows Mr. Copperfield which could (or could not) add to the plausibility of the question he posed.
4. Tomo made a comment that he though Craig’s suggestion of publicity stunt was ridiculous as the stigma of Rape could NEVER be a good thing.
For the record. Tomo’s thoughts echoed my own. I believe it would be the act of a mad man to even think of doing such a thing for publicity. No matter how desparate.
Having said that. I don’t understand the mentality of a kamikaze pilot, or a suicide bomber. Sometimes people do things that don’t make sense unless you can walk in someone else’s boots. I still think it ludicrous, but I accept that stranger things happen at sea (take the Mary Celeste for example)
5. Craig then took Tomo’s post personally.
Craig Browning wrote:Do you have a clue as to how many people that know David and know more about the situation than you do have reason to suspect that this scenario may be more correct than not.
Fair enough. Tomo probably doesn’t know.
Craig Browning wrote:and your reaction... the tone of it as well as the intent of making me look "buffoon" to your supposed intellect; well, it certainly reveals how desperate you are to attempt to trump me at every opportunity for some asinine reason that many people seem to have a "clue" about (have noticed) and you fluidly deny.
IMO no one was making anyone look like a buffoon. Tomo was merely making a comment on a provocative statement. The fact that Craig took this so personally and saw it as an insult actually seemed to me to be a little bit paranoid. Sorry Craig. That is how it reads.
There was no need for that statement to be made. Strike one.
Craig Browning wrote:Come down from your ego-enshrouded throne Tomo, you have a very long way to go before your put-downs will ever elevate you to anything close to where I've been…
oh dear oh dear. Out of order Mr. Browning.
6. To be honest after this point it was just Craig attacking Tomo and everyone that tried to point out he was out of order. It seems to me that Craig feels there is some sort of conspiracy against him. Tomo and others did try and defend themselves, but as I see it that is all they did.
So. My verdict.
Craig – IMO, I agree with Lady of Mystery. You (at the very least) owe Tomo an apology. Are you big enough to accept that? Are you big enough to do it?
I will leave everyone else you insulted for now as I am sure that by apologising to Tomo (unreservedly) they will accept your apology is also aimed at them.
I will unlock this thread. I would rather Craig the only person to respond. I would rather Craig’s post is an apology.
If Craig uses it for anything other than an apology – then he should consider whether or not he wishes to carry on posting here.
Craig – I like you. I Like what you have to say. In this case though I feel you are out of order. I am risking the chance that you will feel I am part of a conspiracy, and that would be a shame. I am not. I do not even believe there is a conspiracy.
As I mentioned at the beginning – this post is purely my own opinion and not necessarily that of the other mods.