ANY business you start that is intended as a means of supporting you and your family will consume the majority of your time, there are no exceptions nor will length of time in that venture likely change said circumstance. The bane of show biz is the travel that's involved (time away from the "family"), the hours it demands (most of the time) and the monotony of
doing the same act over and over and over again.
READ THAT LAST LINE AGAIN
The majority of the real working pros aren't worrying about "new bits" for their acts, they do what works and they hold to it for years, sometimes their entire career, making only minor adjustments here and there over time and only after lots of consideration. The only exceptions to this rule are your mega stars that have to have a new show each season, such as how Copperfield was for so long; and those who luck into having the same gigs year after year, who want to toss in one or two new things so as to not deliver all the same thing on their return.
Contrary to the dreams, ambitions and masturbative fantasies of most amateurs you do not need to have a two or three different close-up acts (unless that's going to be "your field"), you do not need to also have a bird & silk act plus a half-dozen or so grand illusions, an escape show, a psychic styled show and of course a spook show.
No... PICK ONE! Stick with it!
To do less makes you out as being nothing other than another wannabe in the eyes of the bookers; someone that's chasing the next gig just to make a buck vs. someone that lays everything on the line and says
"This is my product, who I am and what I do and this is the price."
Getting paid to do tricks does not make you a pro, it just means you managed to find someone willing to give you a bit of cash... and from what I read in these forums, some of you are getting way too little for what you are delivering. But that's the habit many of us have gotten into as the result of "assuming" this is how it's done.
Instead of chasing after the next really cool hip piece of crapola from the magic shops over the next year, invest into some business books and classes... as my old chum Dean Hankey used to point out,
"The word 'Business' is the bigger part of 'show'". So approach this exactly as you would any other business... not how you think a business is run but how businesses really are run in the real world if you want a better chance at success. Add to this education process those scenarios that will take YOUR ACT... that is to say, an actual set of routines that are fully scripted and proven that will not ever change... and get industry pros to help mold you into being a sound product. (most of us ignore this step and end up becoming a laughing stock vs. a viable product)
If you haven't noticed there's a theme here --
get something and stick with it! Become the best at what you do and stop worrying about keeping up with all the trends and latest gadgets. FOCUS!
You'll find more or less these same words in the majority of the business related materials for the magic industry that are out that that are reputable. You'll find it in the real world as well, all because it's a proven fact; you create a single product and get it up and making you money BEFORE you add to the product line, image, etc.
As to the Family Side of things... you need to look at the statistics. Show Biz and High End Retail Sales are two of the most stress field, time consuming vocations anyone can get into and two areas where chronic alcoholism, drug addiction, infidelity, etc. tend to be "the norm". Very few of us knowing what it's like to get married and living a long life together with the same person is going to be like because of the stress and strain and general environmental challenges Show Biz creates... especially for those who aren't pulling in the $100,000.00 annual gross +, which is the case for most (the majority of so-called professional performers in the U.S. grossing less than $50,000.00).
The other side of this crux is to have no kids and have a spouse that's just as eager to get out there and make the show work, no matter what. Though such scenarios exist, they are rare and can lead to a somewhat "empty" feel when you head into your 40s & 50s... most all of us wanting to leave that little biological imprint on the world.
Show Biz is a demanding and cruel mistress who is not easily tamed but if you aren't willing to invest the time and work with what it more or less the same exact show year in and year out, you're pretty much going to miss the boat... and she only gives you one chance to get "there" e.g. you must be selfish and willing to sacrifice certain things... starting with anything that is reflective of having a "normal" or "traditional" life.
Think about it...
