As with Jean Eugene Roberts, the Chicago Opener / Red Hot Mama is also a firm fave of mine too, and one that sticks in people's minds and / or is requested again. Magic has to be fresh and exciting, and standard pick a card tricks I admit, have the
potential to be boring, which is why it's important to cherry pick the best. I would say, however, that Red Hot Mama is fairly standard card fare, BUT its simple and catchy plot which apparently seems as if the magician has messed up is a great premise. Which is why, along with Design For Laughter, its great to do when you're fairly intoxicated and it is very plausible (and therefore convincing when you milk the effect, and really ham up the fact that there's no odd back card in the spread. Prior to the last revelation I incorporate a fancy sybil flourish, and patter along the lines of: I think I was showing off a bit too much there... and then in an embarassed, confidential tone I address a spectator with a confession that drink and being a smarty pants might have messed up the effect or - hang on... there IS one card there that... etc)
It's my opinion, and therefore
fact - to quote Piers Morgan off the Marks and Spencers advert - that magic may be considered boring and is refused by a spectator, as Queen of Clubs describes happening to her, only because, let's face it, the traditional image of magicians, for instance, pattering on about cards "going back in time" and so on, can be considered as antiquated as top hats and monocles.
There was an interesting thread on TM some weeks ago about patter in magic, but specifically in relation to this thread, the overall effect (not
just the patter), as well as to an extent the selection of effects, needs to be fresh and original so as to distance you - as a performer - away from being the repetitious and boring magician that a small minority of the public unfairly preconcieves you to be. Indeed, as Mandrake states, the standard pick a card tricks as easily performed by laymen does mean that card magic can suffer, which is why in the Is Magic Over thread I suggested that Dynamo is considered fresh and original as he uses lots of non-card based effects to wow, despite these being well-known to our wonderful community. Similarly, on a presentational level, there are ways, as suggested in RRTCM in Card To Pocket of ostensibly presenting a non pick-a-card effect. To all intents and purposes you are, but you are presenting as a mind reading effect: but the spectator is still picking a card. I suppose you could also throw in some other patter or linguistics, but it's all spin on picking a card.
Why do some people view magic as boring? At the risk of the last paragraph sounding like merely a platitude on performance, I propose a less vague example; and there's no finer example than Red Hot Mama as a case in point. As a newbie I first came across Red Hot Mama (Innuendo Bingo THAT one!

) in Gerry Griffin's Complete Card Magic. OK, I appreciate it was an instructional performance, and that's why it was so lacklustre, but the Griffin performance was no exception. There's countless magicians doing the same thing.
So you can put put things in context, my magic was performed on nights out where much alcohol was imbibed in vast quantities. Accordingly, I needed a hook or premise for most of my effects. Bear in mind that I prefer using red backed cards as my usual deck and that my magic was initially considered by some of my sceptical and disapproving friends as a gimmicked chat up line, I came up with the notion that the spectator should blow a kiss at the deck, inadvertently being an ironic self-fulfilling prophecy. "To be honest, I don't know why I do this, but when someone blows a kiss at me, I always try and be smooth and play it cool, but as you can see here, it's got to the point where my cards actually change colour into an icy cold blue colour..." etc.
Now, whilst in fairness Red Hot Mama IS a great trick, what makes my performance fresh, if I do say so myself, is actually the background of alcohol, the bar, the exciting playground of wonder that is going out, flirting etc. - all this provides a context for patter, and I believe such presentation makes it different to the traditional and perhaps now unfashionable patter of there's a "this card entered a blackhole into a different dimension and transformed into the jack of diamonds".
I would like to think that as magicians do their rounds, there will come a time when you show magic to someone has, say, seen a professional magician in action. Accordingly as magicskiski says, I agree that spectators may have had a bad experience of being humiliated, which is wrong as you are enlisting the volunteer's help, not developing an effect so as to belittel them and show them how masterful or big you are. So, the fact that they know they are being tricked, or even say to you: "I just don't like not knowing how things work - I question things", shouldn't be a reflection on you as a performer, rather, just their own viewpoint. Of course the ideal situation would be to win them over, but getting back to the topic and my earlier continuous prose of a loosely formed point, I think as a community we should incite a call to arms to bring that X Factor or originality to performing magic as opposed to the countless iMagicians who want to be carbon copies of David Blaine and merely aspire to emulate rather than create, possibly in the process give magic a bad name. I'm not criticising such people as everyone has their idols, but equally I think it's important to be inspired but not to be a clone.
Apologies for the book!