by Michael Jay » Dec 16th, '04, 14:43
To an extent, I have to agree that if it bores him, then maybe he doesn't deserve your time and effort. Then again, as I said, you are the one closest to him and will know better than any of us whether he is worth the time or not. You have to make this call.
Also, I think that the majority of us were after methods at first and hadn't the vaguest notion about presentation. Then again, not many of us had the luxury of a mentor, either. That, in my opinion, is what a mentor is about - leading us down the right path.
If he wants to buy up a bunch of tricks and learn the methods, don't stop him, but don't help him with that either. Tell him, bluntly, that you will teach him to be a magician and anything that he wants to do outside of that, like buying up a bunch of useless tricks, is his own thing. Let him know that there is nothing wrong with this but that the real magic is in entertaining an audience and not specifically tricking them. Eventually, he will come to the same conclusion that we all do and he will get past this opening phase. He will also be much richer for having your guidance from the beginning.
So, don't stifle his beginning need to buy up a bunch of useless stuff. In doing this, he will find what he is most happy with, so it really is an important part of becoming a magician, rather a finding himself sort of thing. Once you can see what kind of magic he is gravitating towards, then you will be more able to help him along with his presentational skills and his entertainment skills.
I hope some of this helped.
Mike.