. . . So ya know, I found the "what a stupid hat" thought in your post VERY amusing. I think i giggled for about ten minutes.
"Why are you wearing that hat?"
"I Like Magic!"
. . . 'what a stupid hat'. . .
LOL
Okay. . . I agree magic is an art form. Way of life? for some, maybe, but not for me. I always keep a trck or two on me and am always "Packing" a deck of cards, but i never outright say I'm a magician. like pcwizme, i let them find out in due time. Modesty. The more you refuse to perform tricks in public, the more rumors that will go around and the more interested people will be.
If anyone asks why i have a deck of cards, I tell them that i like to play with cards and leave it at that. I save the magic
for later. opportunity always knocks.
Example: when i first moved to florida i was invited to a poker game. heh heh. chance to shine, hunh?
I pretended to be struggling with the rules. during a break i casualy thumbed through and fixed the deck. Everyone returns, i ask to deal. . . two false riffles an a few fumbled cuts later, i dealt out four royal flushes to the other four players, and gave myself a high-card seven. I justified it by saying "Look I CAN'T be cheating cuz i got the bad hand! I think all four of YOU are cheating. . ." I'm not allowed to play poker with them anymore.
Best part: i managed to gather the cards right and they gave me a second try and everyone got royal four of a kinds

(yeah its possible. try it)
I UNDERSTAND there are career magicians here who go by that title and pride themselves on it. I see the difference between me and a professional as being the same as the difference between a graffiti artist and Michaelangelo. both are talented, but one does it for pay, one for fun and prestige.
Bear in mind. . . as soon as you TELL someone that you're a magician, you're EXPECTED to do magic tricks. then if you're on an off day, you've lost the reputation. I'd reccommend keeping the tricks under the table and doing them when least expected. Then you get more of the "watch that kid" reputation as opposed to the "HEY! You're a magician! do something magic!"
annnd.... I have the distinct feeling I'm about to get flamed by professionals insisting that they don't just do it for money. So I'll stop digging here.
best of luck to ya.