Don't you think that it's being rude to someone who's genuinely asking for some help, only to give an answer like that?
Hmmm. It was not intended to be rude, but if it was received that way, then I apologize. As to whether it was rude... I think that if I asked a question, the only response under it was one such as the one I gave, I would feel snubbed. But if--like in this case-- there had been much helpful responses, and a person conversed with me as pier with a bit of levity, I would feel like I had made a pleasant connection. That is what I had hoped to do.
I would not have done that if there were no constructive comments already, but since there were... well, it wouldn’t have offended me.
As to "a lack of respect for what this site is about," I would like to say that of all my post (and I know there are not many,) I have utilized many of them in attempts to be constructive and helpful. The others have been used mostly as inquisition, again a thing which this site promotes.