by Shufton » Oct 17th, '09, 16:39
Doing the vanish "perfectly" is a good thing, but only one phase of the vanish. The spectator does not know the coin is gone until you reveal it to be so, which gives you time for all sorts of possibilities. A ditch is one. A good hand-washing technique is another. There are MANY possibilities. Are you standing? Sitting? Surrounded? What are you wearing? There are many factors to consider, so that there is no single pat answer that will cover all the possibilities.
There are vanishes that can show both hands empty. Remember - the trick is not done when the coin vanishes - part of it will either be a reproduction, or indeed proving that the coin is really gone. The vanish is not enough - it is only part of the trick.
I don't think it is a mistake to do magic for friends or family - I have done so for more than 45 years. They are always a good testing ground for me, because they will be critical, and won't be shy about revealing weak points I may have overlooked. If I can fool them, I am well on my way to fooling you.
Next, although Jeff McBride is a wonderful performer and an expert technician when it comes to all sorts of manipulations, he is primarily focussed on stage and platform magic - close up is not really his strongest area of expertise. There are many others I would suggest studying for close-up coin magic, including Roth, Gallo, Carney, etc, before I would suggest McBride. You also do not need to become an expert in all aspects of coin magic to effectively vanish a coin. Start with one thing at a time!
Finally, I don't agree that you need a mentor to walk you through something over and over again. I suppose it would be nice to have one, but I can't think of a great coin magician who did. Yes, you need to practice any magic until it becomes second nature, and it would be good to get a tip from a mentor if you can find one. A mirror, a video camera and a critical friend might be all you need.
Be patient with yourself. Study. Practice. Learn and think of new strategies. Becoming good with coins takes time.