I agree with mandrake. I would suggest personally that you start with a nice dvd on basic card magic. That way you get alot of bang for your buck and can pretty much start impressing people off the bat. (Good for confidence building.) For this i would goto
penguin magic -
www.penguinmagic.com
ellusionist -
www.ellusionist.com
Now they have alot more than just card tricks. So just peruse the site and read the effects and see what interests you. But I would highly suggest that if you are going for the more specific tricks or gag/prop type tricks that you search this forum or similar forums looking for a review before buying it. (This leads to alot of problems for people new to magic.) Also, I highly suggest that if you get a trick and it looks stupid, or you think it would never work or fool anyone... do the trick FIRST before making such a decision. You will notice that, if you show someone a trick, and they dont know how it is done they will be quite impressed. But the second you tell them how they will pretty much gain the impression of "Oh well pft" like you do when you feel it is not a great trick. You know why? Because knowhing how a trick is done is not what makes it impressive, so you cannot judge how good it is by knowing how it is done.
Thats my rant.
By the way, if you just want to know how it is done, why not learn how it is done and do it anyway. That way you satisfy your need to know and you can give people a smile along the way.
Thats my 2 cents.
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