sauruman wrote:well you said it yourself you don't believe in an absolute moral code which means you are a relativist. Which leads me to my next question, if there is no purpose in life for you why should you care to live be a set of rules
A few things I've noticed here... Firstly I agree with everything Nick said I also live my life too MY beliefs, which are much the same as his...
I also agree there is no "absolute code".. this does not mean I have no purpose in life, and I almost take offense to fact that because I don't live to a set of rules you consider correct it makes you think I do not care

What it means is I think I can judge myself what is right and wrong and hopefully being the civilised person I am make the right descisions to make my life and the others around me peaceful, happy and rewarding.
I feel no need to have to go to church to learn these values and would be offended if anyone thought I was incapable of making the "right" descision in how I choose to live my life.
If you feel the need to have to led in what you do in life, so be it..
I respect your choice in the matter and feel niether better or worse a person for not having too myself.
I did if you look back through this thread comment on a post where someone was honest enough to admit they felt they needed the teachings of Jesus to help them make the right choices in life and I applaud them for being that honest.
If for one second anything I have heard in Church (and trust me I've been there many times as my wife and children are all practicing Catholics and attend mass every week as well as going to a catholic school) made me feel like I was doing something wrong in my life, I would act on it and change.
Unfortunatly I find most of what I hear there common sense at best and hypocritical at worst as I see many members of the congregation outside of the church and see what they act like outside of the 4 walls.. there choice I have no problem with it, its just not for me.
Hope that makes my view at least a bit more understandable.
