Anna wrote:I'm not direct in all aspects of my life

When it comes to things like this though, that can genuinely have a negative effect on somebody's life because of one or two people, sometimes you need a good strong woman to stand up and reach for the stars!

Like yourself Anna, I bite back.
What you shared was YOUR opinion on something it is not a universal truth. My suggestion is that you stop where you're at on this issue and check the archives, I do not back down on this point and I loathe CYNICS (they might think they're "skeptics" but are far more extreme in their views).
Truth of the matter is aspects of what Psychics/Mystics have claimed for centuries are being exploited right now by science and even the toy/game markets... I know that certain detractors will try to mask over what's going on, but if you know the essence of genuine psychic training and its more legit meanings, there is no denying that what we are seeing in the technology world is stepping forward on similar ground.
The other truth centers on Intuition and Instinct -- how the human subconscious collects information "subliminal" information and gives to us a physical as well as analytical sense of things that typically proves to be correct for those folks that are "in tune" to such sensations. . . and I'm not saying it's a Psychic exclusive; Intuition is used daily by cops, business leaders, salesmen and more, including folks in our world. Thus far nothing has been able to disprove the reality of this particular influence though we do know that it is stronger in some vs. others and too, it can be consciously evolved... ironically, the process of expanding one's intuition is again, identical to those processes used for "developing" psychic type abilities.
While it is true, someone that does DIVINATION can not give you a pin-point "This is when you will die" type of prediction, there are ways of offering an estimation; especially through Palmistry. But even that is malleable -- concrete destiny does not exist in that every human being has their freedom of choice, and as has been said already, some people's belief in Readers - their misunderstanding as to what a Reader really is- can bring about self-fulfilling results, but then most everything in our lives fits that formula, which is why affirmative thinking (meditation) and visualization methods are so potent when it comes to reaching one's goals.
Though I have said this a few dozen times, there is a huge difference between being a Reader vs. being "Psychic" -- anyone can learn how to Read the cards or whatever, it is a discipline and quite literally a language that anyone can learn to work with and know exceptional results in the process, free of all the magic world's "explanations" and one liners.
Oracles of this sort are quite literally "training tools" -- they help the student learn how to focus their thoughts while likewise becoming more and more aware of the finer "energy" within their environment... which brings us right back to what was being said about Intuition, which in my opinion/experience IS what the majority of people embrace when it comes to the fantasy of being Psychic...
Yes, I said "Fantasy" of being a Psychic in that many of the patrons of a Reader as well as those shut-eye/self-taught Readers romanticize the idea of what being Psychic is all about; they are being unrealistic. BUT, so-called "debunkers" and self-proclaimed "skeptics" likewise fall into this mis-association -- they superimpose onto the idea certain fantasy based factors that frequently come from Urban Legend and antiquated lore vs. an evolved and mature look at the idea.
In truth being "Psychic" is quite mundane and not nearly as phenomenal as some would like to make it
Psychics DO NOT have any kind of special "Power" though, because of the fantasiful thinking noted above, people mis-translate what they've seen or experience. From what I've seen in hundred of interviews and encounters at least 95% of it all is 100% natural...
... which brings up an important bit of perspective here...
Just because you know how an Asrah Levitation works does not make it any less magical, especially to those NOT "initiated" into our fraternity... those not "in the know". This is exactly the same thing we have when it comes to any arena tied to mysticism.
Based on your original claim, one echoed by far too many, every single person that becomes a "magician" must become an Atheist and bow only to the Religion of Science & Mind. Not only is such an attitude disrespectful of the majority of the human race, it's arrogant! Such imposition hurts magic all the way around and robs most of us of being able to understand the power of enchantment when we create it by way of belief -- one of the most essential ingredients of any magical performance.
Yes, there are hustlers and con-men out there, but to say that every single person that calls themselves a Psychic or Medium is such would be akin to racial profiling or any other mode of typecasting; we all know that such assumptions are rarely applicable to all people set beneath such umbrellas... at least that would be the case if we are in fact honest and mature human beings.
I've done Readings since the latter 1970s and in all that time I've not met a single skeptic that's walked into that world with the intent of actually learning. Most come with the (possibly subconscious) desire to NOT find confirmation of things.
Why?
People fear such things, it's that simple
I've said more than enough here. If you look at the archives you will find more than sufficient detail when it comes to my position... and by the way, you know nothing about me either, but I'm more than certain my career, even with all the battle scars, shines just a bit and lends to me qualifications in making the judgments I make and standing in defense of people that have "faith" (and I'm far from being a holy roller).
As to the "strong woman" line... I like in Northampton, Massachusetts the Lesbian capital of the planet. I deal with "strong women" regularly
