There is that famous quote...
'Countless the pleasure is a great, as being cheated as to cheat.'
Ok I was going to write something out, but it's only what I've read here.
http://www.honestliar.com/fm/works/whymagicsucks.htmlMy favourite bit is at the end,
"And so I love what magic occasionally is more than what it most often is presented as. And I hate every self-styled conjuror who misinforms the public about what magic can be."
This also looks quite interesting.
http://magic.about.com/od/beginningmagic/a/041708mistakes.htmFInally something from my own experience. I'm not sure if this is on the same lines, but...
I perform close up magic for groups of people. Very rarely is it one on one - if it is, for example I spot someone by themselves at the bar, then I have routines for that situation.
However when I approach a group, if someone isn't interested in magic, but everyone else is, I will ignore that person. If they are next to me, I physically block them out, I don't put my shoulder in their face, but I do turn away from them to perform to everyone else. Most times people will just sit there and let everyone else enjoy the show.
Exceptions.
One time, this lady was vocal in her dislike of magic, but everyone else enjoyed it - I gave her a card which wasn't her card, and she turned it straight over, and said, 'that's not my card' so I said, 'what you doing magic on me for? have you done this before?' From then, I had other people at the table handle the props - A short self working routine followed and then I left.
The worst situation I have been in is when one guy shouted things out 'it's up your sleeve', 'that's two cards', 'you're c*** (not the best)' 'magnets' - basically anything whether or not that was the method - I just left. After which the table called me back later and apologised for their friend who had been 'sent on an errand.'
Sometimes people get uppity about performing magic to their girlfriends, because they are insecure about their realtions with them - I just ignore that situation and carry on as usual, then leave.
And finally from the mentalist Dunninger,
'For those who believe no explanation is necessary, for those who don't none will suffice.'
People who hate being fooled, as you put it, don't deserve an explanation - I'm there to entertain. If they don't like my style of entertainment, that's fine, I'm not going to force it on them. For those who enjoy my entertainment, then it is all magic - no sleight of hand, no IT, it's magic - I know, you know and they know it's NOT REAL, but let them discuss the methods when they are in the car on the way home. For the fifteen minutes, I'm with them - magic exists. I think that's wonderful, right - much better than being 'clever'.