by Amanda Angeli » Nov 6th, '07, 15:21
Hello Boys,
It's not the specific trick that impresses the girls, it's the boy who does it. You see, you need to be yourself, to be a great guy, to be open and honest and kind, genuine and fun and light-hearted. If you are these things, in other words, just a sweet person, then you'll find the ladies attracted.
For when someone does a trick, it's their own personality that is the real magic that is important. Too often we tend to focus on the mechanics of tricks and we forget the love of the art of magic itself. If you can find yourself fully embracing art, then the girls you seek or the boys for that matter, will notice you.
We often lose ourselves to our practice and forget that magic is a social skill, an art of and for people, and in that purity, that is where the soul of magic thrives and dances in duende.
Therefore, in a nutshell, work on yourself, on who you are, not on simply a trick or some false personna that doesn't fit the real you. Find out who you really are and learn to express that in any and all tricks and you'll find the women you dream of. Do not worry about a trick not working, that really doesn't matter to the general public like so many of us think it does, what matters, all that matters, is showmanship. So many of us overlook that. For if we have that, we can do any trick, fail at a trick, or do things perfectly and the audience will love us for our genuineness. That's the secret fellas.
Love,
Amanda Angeli